Full prompt: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.
Last time, I listed off mind control and the specific kinds of disabilities I am most interested in. My primary kinky fantasy, of mind controlling someone and inducing neurological disabilities in them, is still basically the same. However, since then, I’ve discovered other lesser kinks that I’m into.
Firstly, I am interested in both impact play and bondage. While I have a long way to go before I’m ready to play with a partner, I really want to learn to do bondage + impact scenes.
I’ve also started to realize that I’m possibly some kind of Primal Predator. I started to question this because of my results on the BDSM quiz, and from reading what Primal people had to say, a lot of it sounds familiar. But I’m still trying to figure it out. I very much don’t fit in with the Primal tendency to not want to analyze and define things, and I think my inner predator is a mix of cat and vampire-like creature, which complicates things.
Pet play, too, interests me, specifically as a dominant cat. The idea of a dominant pet is not particularly common, and I’m still unclear on how that works, but I am definitely interested in exploring further.
And the disability stuff – I’ve discovered that I really like the idea of playing with a submissive who is willing to pretend to be disabled. Which is maybe somewhat obvious, but I didn’t know that before.