What was your first kinky sexual experience? If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen.
The answer to this question is very much different now.
Since I last did the 30 Days of Kink, I’ve had two kinky experiences that have helped me to clarify what I want.
The first was a kink expo thing where I got to try out several toys. This was a lightbulb moment kind of experience for me. Prior to this, I had absolutely no interest in bondage or impact play, but I got what I think may have been top space from trying out impact toys, and I spent roughly half an hour watching in fascination as two people did an intricate rope floor scene. I was especially fascinated by the way the bottom for that scene had really pale delicate skin that formed marks very easily.
The second, which is currently ongoing, is an RP that’s been going on for a little more than two months. After an abortive attempt at RP with someone on FetLife, I met my current RP partner on ParaDevo – a submissive guy with spina bifida who is quite happy to roleplay a kidnap victim that my mad scientist character is testing out paralytic and blindness serum on. She accidentally created a mindlink with him, too, that allows her to read and influence his mind. This experience has taught me a) that online play is definitely workable for me, b) that I love the idea of playing with someone who is willing to pretend to have a disability my character induced, and c) how to be confident and take charge as a Dom.