What are your hard limits?
Haven’t done any play, but here are some things I know I’ll have as limits:
First, I’m never willing to sub. It’s dom or equals, that’s it.
Second, nothing with genitals. No nudity, no genital stimulation. Nothing even close to genitals. No poop or pee either, that’s probably better off staying fantasy only.
Third, nothing 24/7. Not only won’t I have the energy, but if I play with someone, I want us to be friends on an equal ground, whatever our roles. Plus I’m not particularly dominant in everyday life.
Fourth, very little tolerance for pain, inflicting or receiving. Pain play has no appeal to me.
Fifth, no kissing. It grosses me out.