What are your hard limits?
Mostly, my answer is the same as it was before, with one glaring difference. I thought I would never ever want to do pain play, which is downright hilarious now, since pain play is probably number one among the kink things I could actually do in real life! I went from “hell no” to “meh, maybe” to “wait, I actually really love this, this is totally me” to “I’m a proud sadist!” It boggles my mind how I used to think pain play would be a hard limit.
Bottoming for pain play, on the other hand, is still a hard limit. I’m a top.