Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves? Any thing you particularly dislike or that annoys you? If so, what are they?
Probably number 1 would be how many people inextricably link it to sex. It’s so hard to find good resources or erotica for sex-repulsed kinky people, and vanilla folks seem to equate kinky with being sexually adventurous. (Note – Will from The Journey of Will touches on this when he warns kinky people that ‘sexually adventurous’ isn’t the same as kinky and sexually adventurous people don’t necessarily make good partners for kinky people.)
