Talk about something within kink/BDSM that you’re curious about or don’t understand.
I don’t understand the appeal in submission. I’m a dominant, so I get why the dominant wants to do what they do, but on some fundamental level, I do not get why the submissive enjoys it too.
Which is a problem sometimes, because I start to wonder if anyone really can enjoy the stuff I want to do to them. And then I start feeling like a monster that no one could truly love.