How open are you about your kinks?
My answer is mostly the same as before, which frustrates me. But I’ve been slowly getting more comfortable acting kinky – making casual references to my kinks with people who know, wearing a kink-related pin and some shirts with kink pride stuff, etc. And there’s one person more who definitely knows. Though we’ve never actually had a conversation about it, I made enough slips in front of my brother’s best friend that I’ve come to the conclusion that he definitely knows, so I discuss it openly with my brother in his presence occasionally.
