Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how?
I’m still trying to figure out how much of what I like is part of my kink. Is this why I’m so interested in psychology, or is that more because I’m an autistic abuse survivor who has been getting counseling since I was 7?
One interest that I know is non-kink but has heavily affected the expression of my kink is my interest in creative writing. Creative writing is literally how I discovered my kink – I was writing a story involving incontinence and decided to research it, and then came across the ABDL community. And it’s continued to be an important way for me to express and process my kink.