Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?
I really don’t know.
I’ve had people ask me if it’s about power. And I don’t know, I do like the idea of having power, but I don’t think it’s the main appeal.
I sort of feel like a big part of it is the scientist thing. I like the idea of figuring out what does what, and how it all comes together. I mean, the human brain is amazing. Everything that goes into making us ‘us’ is in there.
But most neuroscientists probably feel the same way, without a fetish for this stuff. So I don’t know, really.